The Little Black Dress!

OK, so I'm at this fantastic wedding last night at Carnivale Restaurant, which is THE most colorful place as you can imagine with that name. I look around at the 200 plus guests and every woman is in the "little black dress". What's up with that? There I am in my kelly green dress, shoes and earrings (yes, they all have to match, it's a religion:-) Is everyone just afraid of the boldness of color, am I out of style (but then again, I'm never in style) just prefer to do my own thing. It always makes me wonder when people say to me, "I wish I could have a red kitchen, I wish I could wear a green dress, I wish I could wear big earrings..." why don't they?